Advice today has a lot to do with mores - that violations and betrayals are around us: criminals who violate the law, people who betray partners and family, gang members who work with police, and police who get away with their crimes. It is also about police cleaning the neighborhood up, and us having the daring, the guts, to make a commitment to do right. Close connections to others make either type of community. OK, guys, Fridays are slow, y'all call, you will "get in." Comment here on your ...