GUIDANCE      If you think about it, a lot of happy endings – a lot of your good life stories – grow out of what you did with some bad stories. What I'm glad about is often what didn't happen, you know? And even more than that, a great victory often has a defeat on the other end of the stick. 'I'm glad another one bit the dust,' you say as all those flies who are no longer threatening your picnic are indeed in the dust. So we are on that seesaw this time around. . . Are YOU here for the first ti...