GUIDANCE               I am thinking of a concept that 'We should thank our abusers because we benefit from their actions that represent a loss to them.' Survivors are our focus today. 'What doesn't kill you strengthens you' – another concept we read and hear about. We are better off for having survived this or that. It's a fact. Major steps in personal development come from overcoming and surviving. What have you survived lately, anyway? . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love ...