Advice reminds us that it can be a slow long hard uphill climb to success and togetherness. Being persistent and taking it slow, you will eventually get to Mount Serendipity's summit. How many dysfunctional places and people before you have the formula - and the good luck - that fits you into the sharing social life you are on the track of? - could be a while but you will get there even if you have to leave a pile of kissed pigs behind.  

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