GUIDANCE     The struggle to be happy can overwhelm us to the point of depression, you know? Suggestion is to find joy in the journey to freedom from whatever those depressing restrictions are. Smell the roses on the way, as they say. Throw the cargo of childhood overboard and enjoy the relief as you delay taking on making someone else's childhood. Relief is a joy in itself. We even suggest enjoying your own, or someone else's handsome muscles. Being full of yourself leaves no room for the sunsh...