GUIDANCE      There's always something to fix. There's always something to figure out. We think long and hard in a worrisome way when a situation is coming up that – we surmise – calls for for more assertive handling than we want to muster. Today we gently suggest that a long hard think re creative solutions prepares you for the moment of confrontation so that you may sidestep being very assertive, and handle it with a magic touch.   Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love this pl...