Three of Cups - Queen of Swords Here we contrast party gals and an old lady, celebrating and being a widow - stories like this. Grandma is a fun gal. Being the party pooper. This old gal was a party girl. Doing without a life of fun and profit. My ex-wife is 'living high on the hog.' She nags you because she enjoys that. She expects and demands La Dolce Vita. Glad to have that tough lady to share life with. The widow when everyone's having a good time. Mama does without so they can have a good l...