GUIDANCE           Being a member of some groups comes with just being alive, comes automatically – no way around it no matter how much of a hermit a human hankers to be. Relations with other people and relations with the groups you find yourself part of invariably involve struggle, discord, fighting together as a team, and fighting over internal issues. We lift the cover on all these struggles, and take a peek, and have our wise say today, comparing the struggles couples have with struggles wor...