Advice   When business is done on a shoestring,  the art of the deal requires pondering carefully whether there is enough benefit for each of the involved parties to perform their part in the contract.   Meeting to negotiate that could be very confidential.   In a love relationship or love affair,  the same question being asked pays off:   Is there enough in this affair for my partner to have reason to do his/her part to suit me?          

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