Guidance     Today we thank our bullies and are grateful for our adversities.  How many heartaches does it take to make a happy person?   How bad does a split up or divorce have to be to make us try harder and appreciate the next love partner?  Can we love someone forever without first hating someone else?  Are we closer friends with friends because of the people we have such a hard time with?  A hostile environment makes allies of people who are shut out (The enemy of their enemy is their frien...