Guidance        Putting it all together, we have a caution light on the times when we are 'sold' and gung-ho about something – a caution light that says, 'Check out the self-interest of the other people involved.  Are they on board?'  Along the same lines, when sex is great with a partner, we are likely to assume we are both in love, here; and women tend to assume 'love' means devotion and being taken care of.  In short, when you feel rah-rah about something, check the wind, check the facts.

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