Guidance      Here we are doing what is right and proper, acting politely most of the time, and we fear upheaval.   It's risky to be the fellow who offers to make things right.  It's proper for a boyfriend to make that first affectionate move, but it is still scary.   Maybe I'm being good because I am afraid of karma, of my chickens coming home to roost.   I think I will just accept, right now, that bad things can happen to good people but are somewhat less likely to, and save myself the angst. ...

Guidance     Here we are doing what is right and proper, acting politely most of the time, and we fear upheaval.  It's risky to be the fellow who offers to make things right.  It's proper for a boyfriend to make that first affectionate move, but it is still scary. Maybe I'm being good because I am afraid of karma, of my chickens coming home to roost.  I think I will just accept, right now, that bad things can happen to good people but are somewhat less likely to, and save myself the grief. &nbsp...