GUIDANCE          Being alive is phasing out of one situation into another. Sometimes the phasing out is seamless, and sometimes it is an upheaval. We are looking at the transition, at the point where the gear is being shifted. A transition can go either way as to how it feels to us, and either way as to whether it is actually an improvement on where we are at right now. Since we may not be aware the gears have shifted at the moment they do, we may feel bad about a thing that will be good, or fe...