There are always going to be influences we are not aware of that affect us, but at least sometimes we can stop the bad ones from continuing to affect us. But, hey, one influence that sneaks up on us before we know it is romantic attraction. We plan to never love again, and the next thing you know we are looking at a future full of it. Of course, we can be the one who seeks to exert the seductive influence: “It's not working now, but you will get him/her into a romantic scene with you.” Two of Cu...