GUIDANCE      There's privacy, and there's socializing – whether socializing is business or pleasure – and there's private time, alone time. Some of us want more of one, and some of us want more of the other. We tend not to think about this factor, but too much or too little makes for a constant uncomfortable feeling. The underlying suggestion here is to associate with people who give you pleasure, and do in business the things that also give you pleasure. We acknowledge the challenge this is. ....