This is an email reading of a person who gives me permission to share it here. It is fine general advice, and I think you will enjoy it. . [from the email form] My question is: If I can't be in a relationship with a little (ahem) responsible adult fooling around soon, then I think I may go crazy. How can I encourage a relationship of this sort with a gentleman? . Question: How can I encourage a relationship of this sort with a gentleman? . Queen of Swords – Four of Pentacles – Ace of Cups "I a...