GUIDANCE           Things are in the way … long term in the way … and you hang in there, and you achieve your purpose precisely because of the interference, developing a skill … or more than one … that you otherwise would not have. Like I have said before, we should write a thank-you note to people who get in our way and help us develop the muscles of our psyche, because theirs is usually an unrewarding effort. . . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love this place! Our site is d...