Guidance      We consider the things that divide people who are of the same family or community. Let's make a story out of these four words: "Us. Them. Connect. Shun." Our story is about whether to be a hippie or an Episcopalian; whether to stay with the characteristics and beliefs you were born into, or poke your nose out the door and test the strange air. Attitudes bombard this subject. Having some friends costs you other friends. Partners in the firm avoid conflicts of interest.   Are Y...