GUIDANCE Here we have a portrait of a man who is intensely in love but doesn't want to face an official relationship with its expectations for the future and its obligations. Usually the woman in these stories 'tries to make it work' and pursues the fellow. The more cool he is, the more drama she creates. This is an actual email reading of a real-life dame who did the opposite. Did the winning strategy of taking a page out of Sir's book an being even cooler than he, for longer than he can stan...