Guidance     Make the best use of whatever you suffer; use it as an asset, share it with your people. In a bad situation, make it better than it's meant to be: She hates kids but is devoted to the family's children. If your marriage is nothing but trouble, devote yourself to someone else. This speaks not of self-sacrifice or martyrdom but of 'making the best of things' as making a happy life for yourself, partly by making the people around you more pleasant to associate with.   Instructions...