GUIDANCE We are in the background observing the behavior of peers and using the parts of their ways that we dislike to better ourselves. Nothing like a bad example to start you on the straight and narrow, we say. Spiritual enlightenment born of earthly aggravations is an old story – a good book, usually, too. The times I mess up tell me how to be at peace instead. And at the same time, we talk about setting such a persistently good example to counterbalance an environment that you educate o...