GUIDANCE    Both friends invite you to their side of their dispute, and here you are acting as if you agree with each of them. Today is about being friendly in a situation that isn't openly hostile, so there's room for saving face. Our story is also about the hurt of being misled, and about things that are good in one way and bad in another, that we are dealing with. Our story is about how we do our best to be the good guy, even when we aren't quite that, as we watch everybody else doing the sa...