Guidance Two people get close, and there's some issue between them – or several. It's a sure thing, isn't it? Some of us have a gift for being gracious about this though, don't we? And some of us keep quiet about differences in order to exploit them. Intimacy with a quarrelsome person can be exhausting activity, or have you been there? A shy person makes a very close friend sometimes. I keep your secret … or I keep a secret from you … in order to not stir things up. Some of us are ju...