Guidance     Lifestyles: There are people who get things done and people who don't.   We look into aspects of having a life purpose, being driven, aiming to achieve, versus not caring about all that.    Happy well-adjusted types are not the ones who get ahead; all we need is a house and a car to enjoy life.   And all that some of us want is 'just to be happy.'   Normal people do not achieve great things.   We then discuss choices about family, and choosing the kind of people we spend time with. ...