Guidance            Forget the pain, let loose of the bad times of the past or the miserable childhood - Who cares?    You trust someone, you think you are in a reliable romance, and you find yourself in bed with a rattlesnake?    Oh, well - next! It's like someone who is senile leaving the house and getting lost, that's all.   Happens all the time to all of us.   Get free of moldy hurts;   flush and start over.    The good old days were just as bad - we just forget the bad part after we get out...