Guidance     You are being hit by both in-your-face pressure and behind-your-back pressure: Watch for it and feel superior. You can fight fire with fire; you can answer a game with a game. The 'straight man' can be as cagey as the 'comedian.' Here's a bad-guy pretending he isn't really taking advantage of (you), deceiving or coercing (you) in order to apply sneaky subtle pressure. And here's the intended victim (you?) borrowing the same tactic, pretending the pressure isn't being applied, that (...