GUIDANCE      Being grateful for improvement instead of greedy for goodies: That happens when we encounter one of those helpless, stuck-there, phases of life. A small breath of air where no breeze has been makes you so happy. It would have taken much more than that to make you happy at another time. Just getting over an ailment, a shortcoming, an obstacle, a stifling situation … or even just the same old … wonderful … thing for too long – can make us inordinately happy. Like the feeling of traff...