Guidance      In this uneasy situation, it seems to be up to a woman to finesse a settlement that all sides agree to. Everyone in the meeting is worried and wonders whether she has a solution. (I hear the Beatles singing 'We can work it out.') Are we really going to live up to our end of the agreement? You are called upon to be a diplomat.  And in a personal relationship, she just takes the lead because he is so uneasy and doesn't know why.   Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! Peop...