Guidance    … transitions in a fellow's behavior … transition between being a respectable person who is attractive to others and being an irresponsible funloving brat … going in either direction. Very emphatic that he is making this change himself in himself. No one else accounts for who the guy is: He makes the choices; the image he makes is his … and is him. "Our fine boy is turning himself into a delinquent." or “He is not a kid anymore, he has made himself a fine young man.”   Are YOU ...