GUIDANCE       You value friends who are generous when you are short of money ... or of love, and you do the same for them, it's only fair. Sometimes you are generous and sometimes you are cheap in dealing with people. It's fair to withhold something you know from an old friend in order to keep the relationship sweet. But mostly it's the people you trust that you share your deepest darkest feelings with. . . Are YOU here for the first time? Come in! People love this place! Our site is divided ...