Advice is the pettiness of the personal animosities and personal issues that break up relationships with our spouses or intimate partners. Reading the list these four cards make, which I divided into 'male' and 'female' sides, I thought it was amusing. Mammals have a strong instinct to dominate, and when we fight, we are being mammals, often! The issue beneath is not who's right and who's injured, but who's boss. ========================================================================= Is this ...