Advice is about a man's experience of marriage--a gentle man's, to be specific. Being the 'happily married man' means being the bureaucratic type, being decent and conforming. This is more than enough to give a guy cold feet. He feels jealous for no reason. His family feels threatened by his new marriage. Meanwhile, she is excited to marry a good man, even one that annoys her in some ways. He defends 'his people.' ================================================================================...
