Advice is about the roles that both adversity and breaking off with people we are associated with play in our getting ahead and looking acceptable to other people, looking respectable. To please the people who are disposed to disagree with us, we should have 'the look,' the flawless look that indicates everybody else agrees with us. Advice also covers the fact that the look isn't always enough for the long haul ... that sometimes we dissociate ourselves from the successful, respectable handsome ...
