Advice You don't have to pay attention. Even if it is Lover Boy or Lover Girl, you don't owe undivided attention just because a stimulus is in front of you. Some stimuli we should sleep through, you know? A ringing phone goes unanswered: That is an answer! Inner peace is a useful tool to disconnect yourself and be 'elsewhere' when the doorbell rings and it's the neighbor's kids again. Sometimes Inside is the place to be.

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