Advice addresses the two main ways to get ahead or succeed at work and in social life: by being friendly and cooperative, and by being competent and responsible. Of course, success isn't a sure thing, we often have something to wonder about, sometimes something as simple as transportation. I choose to do one after the other while wondering whether to ask for help. Boyfriend does whatever it takes to make it work, now that I think of it. He cheerfully does whatever it takes to make it work.
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