Guidance What does a person do when he (or she) knows himself to be pushy, overbearing, macho/macha … whatever you want to call it … and he doesn't want to be that way anymore? Today's message is more than one picture of such a relationship: (1) I attach myself to a powerful person who won't let me take advantage but loves and cares for me (2) I attach myself to someone who is unavailable to me (either actually is, or I imagine he/she is). We speak of business, and of a warm-fuzzy love relations...