Guidance  We continue our theme of exploring mistrust today.  Sometimes love (yeah, really loves you) includes having a use for you, having ulterior motives.  (As Helen Gurley Brown said in 'Sex an the Single Woman,' money is sexy.)    Ulterior but ambiguous situations like 'Yes, she nurtures her mooch, but the one she loves is her equal.' and 'Pretend like you've got everything in the man you love, and you will be everything to him.' … are things to think about, yes?        ...