Guidance The people who consistently do the right thing are the very ones who worry themselves about whether they are doing the right thing. When a guy is so sweet it's scary, women wonder how they can get his attention - sometimes because he will be susceptible to pressure to give them things. Sometimes 'fairness' gets entwined with entitlement in such a way we only do right if there's 'something in it for us.'            

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