Guidance We celebrate the gentleman - the warmhearted good guy - today! The most well-meaning helpful, even devoted, person can misfit in such a way the affection he feels is short-circuited in a given situation or environment. Being leery of being rebuffed is one of those short circuits. Being in an atmosphere that is not conducive to things 'real' is another. The same concept gets applied to being truthful: Being truthful can get you disliked. You can't fight with someone who is calmly factual...
