Guidance   We come with labels and categories that are assigned to us, not chosen. We are in situations we have not chosen. That is 'who we are' officially … like it or not. Some people take it entirely too seriously, too, ya think? There are advantages and disadvantages to these labels and categories upon us. The advantages have disadvantages, and the disadvantages have advantages, to complicate matters. Being one gender or another, or one age or another, or one race or another qualifies or doe...