Guidance We have these backwash times, where we are marking time and things could go either way. Sometimes we are loath to take one direction or another, are undecided because we don't know which way things will go if we do … or don't do …. So often this is about family or marriage ties: whether to chase after, let things be, or get the heck out. Sometimes the best decision is to be firmly indecisive, as our message describes so aptly today.  

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