Guidance The search for someone to marry and share living with is strangely parallel, we are saying, to our search for our real selves. The search for our real selves is about detaching from the programming of family and community; the search for a mate is about attaching as family in the best way, which furthers the community we are part of.  

  Is this the first time you come here? Well … what to do: *Go to Guidance (above ) which is a summary of the Messages. (Guidance is eve...