Guidance Life is about dealing with people if you are one. (You have to work up to getting yourself the life of a recluse or the life of spiritual skills if that is what you desire.) It is up to you to get the reward you want in dealing with the people around you; people do not necessarily live up to what you think they agreed to. So you have to know what they will do for what they want, and whether and how you fit into their scenario - or you will miss your payoff. Women often do not want to he...