Eight of Swords - Four of Cups can't refuse can't - Eight of Swords refuse - Four of Cups Eight of Swords most frequently is going to say 'can't' because clearly the lass in the picture can't do anything right now about the situation she is in. Four of Cups He lets three offers from the hand in the sky sit there as he pointedly ignores the fourth, so this picture reflects when you refuse.  ...