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You find yourself overwhelmed by the ideas of a person you are acquainted with. This person is weird to you – or at least this side of him or her is. But here you are sharing the wild and crazy ideas you have – sharing that side of yourself with this person. This relationship is giving you a lot to think about.
You get yourself where you want to be by giving people a fair deal. (Not the whole story, of course, but it’s still true.) I do the right thing because that is what I want to do, and I get what I want out of it. If that is what you keep in mind, and the rest be damned, it does work.
I’m meditating on the invisible social walls that surround us. If I want to break into a circle of friends who impress me as the kind of people I would like to become accustomed to being around, I see I cannot bring some of the people I know now. I have something in common with both styles of people, both camps, but they do not fit with each other at all. What shall I do? Thinking about shutting people out of my life to be with you.
King of Cups – High Priestess – Ace of Pentacles Guidance We celebrate two people who are unassertive in this world finding one another, as they are a perfect fit or match for one another: the gentleman and the lady. We have devoted our subject to...
A little pilot house in the back of our minds tracks whatever is going on, in all the things around us, and either makes the decisions, or submits the decision whether to act, whether to prevent (nip something in the bud); or whether to just not do anything. You can feel the fellow in the pilot house at work sometimes.
What should be … may or may not be. Just between us, sometimes we have good sense … and there are those other times. Love has its ups and downs and love wasn’t ever intended to make any sense at all: Just look at the animal kingdom. Making a fool of yourself in ritual ways is what love affairs are all about.
I want to be one of those people – I admire them, their style – so I am like them. I fit in with like-minded people, with those who have the same heart I do. Lots of us are content to fit in with a group, our tribe – to be friendly and find friends there. Getting married and settling down is often a part of this picture, or at least thinking that way.
When we have gone as far as we can go, we like it like that, most often. People reduce the chances of change blowing through their reality by being very private
Stories about changing lives. Lots of stories – a very full plate. Money changes things, whether it’s enough money for a decent life now, enough to turn things around, whether it’s fast money, or good money … or whether it’s making the best of *what is* for a change. We speak of doing what benefits us: He goes to church because it benefits him; he turns nice when it benefits him. Pursuing what you are entitled to, full speed ahead, is playing by the rules: If it has ‘your name written on it,’ claim and possess it for yourself. Circumstances change people … and that’s you? Mind your driving: We talk about the road and road signs. But the main message here, to me at least, is pursuing what’s real … what’s real to you right now … and that may change down the road. We have both religion and spirituality today too.
Plan to keep moving even as my energy fluctuates. I might be running around at random, and I might spot a sure thing to go all out for. Sometimes I plan on the fly, rushing over to something that looks promising, especially if the outlook in my current direction is iffy. In my flight, I have not landed yet, but I’m up here looking for the best airstrip for that.