Emperor - Queen of Cups
"being the powerful man she thinks of me as"
being the powerful man who's in control - Emperor
that she thinks of me as - Queen of Cups
Emperor is when you are being the powerful man who's in control but it isn't limited to male gender: An emperor is a monarch, and the occasional gal gets to sit in that seat, right?
Queen of Cups So you are the paramour of a Queen of Cups woman. You would say "She thinks of me as a man worthy of her." That is the main thing Queen of Cups ...