Advice we explore the esoteric meanings of feminine and masculine, the concept of the contrast between being receptive and being active on a particular plane.  We explore the practical use in real (Tarot) life of this concept.  The reason women don't pursue men is:  If the man isn't interested, he won't be doing anything on the physical plane.  The feminine is awareness, thinking, knowing, and being (not active);  the masculine principle is doing, and the will to do.  (End of our lesson in magic...