Advice contrasts being an impulsive and natural (i. e. unimproved) person with being an enlightened person who is 'on the path.' It speaks of burdens and losses, of difficulty and slow going. It contrasts being edgy and egoistic with being patient and helpful. The gender of the cards that express this is male, so the message is directed to men in particular. It mentions being a devoted husband … who is missed.

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Is this the first time you come here? Well … what to do:
*Go to Daily Message Tarot Analysis below. At least one of those sentences has something to say to you. Pick those out. They are about you and the people around you. They are about today and the days around it. (It is a group message like a horoscope, except Tarot isn't based on someone else's birth data, so it can be specific, accurate, detailed and direct. Our experiment here is "How much more accurate is it?")
*Go to Advice to apply what those sentences say (in the best way) for you. (Advice is everyone's favorite part.) Did you come here for your predictions? - You are done now – See you tomorrow.
The Question for weekdays is: "Tell the visitors here something useful and meaningful to them. The Question for weekends is stated right on top on those days. (Some days are 'keep an eye open for' and some days are 'green light, go fast.')
Without a question to focus the answer, four cards can mean contradictory things especially when the Spread has a card that negates other cards. Without a question also the pronouns in a group reading are more flexible, especially in some of these Rider Waite Tarot spreads. When a pronoun is in parentheses, feel very free to substitute. The question in a 'real' individual reading supplies at least half the information!
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Ten of Wands
Five of Cups, King of Wands, Hermit
DAILY MESSAGE TAROT ANALYSIS Tell the visitors here...