Advice is about arriving at the place of comfort for you in your life, that that could involve both struggling and competing and working hard for it, and also avoiding some struggles, competitions and efforts. Do whichever gets you to the goal of ending up, after it's all over, with your preferred life situations. This struggle that you either engage in or withdraw from can be a legal one; it can be about what is rightfully yours, about what is right and proper.
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