Advice is about recognizing we are in a bad situation and getting out of it one way or the other,  which includes changing the mind along with the direction.  It's all about turnaround,  and how sometimes it takes a mistake or a bad scene to make us realize we are heading in the wrong direction.  When our recipe fails each time,  we have to think.  She sees her man again making the same wreck of things and coming back.  

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